A Proud Day

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Canada Proud

On the evening of June 13, 2017 I proudly attended the of launch of The Spirit of Canada, the Chicken Soup for the Soul edition honouring Canada’s 150th birthday and celebrating the diversity of our country. I am proud to be Canadian and proud to be one of the book’s contributors.  Together, the stories provide a mosaic of Canada’s diverse geography and cultures with the clear message that Canada’s greatest treasure is how  people connect with each other. The Canadian spirit extends a hearty welcome, it shares freely and is always there in times of diversity. It is in every family’s experiences; it is in our laughter and our sorrow, in the ordinary and in the extraordinary.

In my story Where Ravens Fly Backwards, I recalled my experiences as a young teacher in Payne Bay, an Inuit community in Northern Quebec. However, on the day of the book launch my thoughts were flying back even farther. My father, Sidney Smith, was third generation Canadian—his great grandfather had come from Scotland. My father fought for Canada’s freedom and my mother, Selma (Kater) Smith, was welcomed to Canada in 1946—a Dutch war bride eager to embrace her new home.

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Heritage Proud

 

 

My mother lost her mother, Johanna Roels Kater, in 1939.  I lost my mother in 2004. To honour my mother and the grandmother I never knew,  I wore a precious family heirloom.   Continue reading

A Rusty Reminder

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I am visiting my brother and he tells me this tractor on his lawn is a 1946 Ford. The one our father purchased many years ago was the 1947 model, also in classic grey. If it was not new when he bought it, it was only a couple of years old and a lot newer than any car he had at the time. Sidney liked mechanical things and I am sure he was very proud of his tractor, with its 3-point hitch and a power take-off.  The plow could be raised and lowered mechanically and I remember the whine of the wide belt that would run from the power take-off to a bench saw, making it so much easier to transform long lengths of trees into stove wood sticks. My father was able to adapt some of the equipment he had used with our horse Cappy and some he sold or bartered for things he needed for the tractor or for the car.

My mother noted in a letter to her brother that they could till so much more land with the tractor . . . then added that the more land they cultivated, the more work there was to be done.  It appears that the labour the tractor saved on one end was just added on to the other end.  But those were optimistic times and neither my father nor my mother were afraid of hard work.

A different kind of chicken soup.

Chicken soup cover_art_209298 I am off to an event that would have given my mother a smile of pleasure. She had a way with words and, for many years, she wrote the Upper Mills news for the St. Croix Courier and it was enjoyed by many people who didn’t even know anyone in Upper Mills. She did some writing and recalled her arrival in Canada in Homeland to Homeland, a personal essay published in Treasued Memories. My mother enjoyed the Chicken Soup for the Soul books and I still have some of her favourites.

The Spirit of Canada is now in stores and tomorrow I am flying to Toronto to attend the official launch because . . . one of my stories, Where Ravens Fly Backwards, is included in this celebration of Canada’s 150th birthday.

I am proud of my country and proud to be a contributor.  Selma (Kater) Smith was born in Amsterdam but she embraced her new country with all her heart—I can not think of one way in which she was not Canadian.  My mother will be in my heart and I know her spirit will be close as I am signing books and enjoying the launch of The Spirit of Canada.

First Impressions

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My mother’s story was still on my mind as we landed in St. John’s, NL. We had planted our vegetable garden before we left, the daffodils and tulips had been fading fast and there were dandelions everywhere. The leaves in the trees were not yet full size but they were  lush and green.  Not so when we left the airport. It was cold. And in the coming days we heard a common refrain. I can’t remember when we have had such a cold, late spring.

Is that what it was like when my mother arrived in New Brunswick in May of 1946? She had left the colour of her familiar Dutch spring and, in the optimism of a March  burst of false hope that spring was close, my father had written that the weather is nice all the time.  But, in reality, the Maritime spring that year was late and cold.  Continue reading

Holding Pattern

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My husband and I are just back from a week in Newfoundland. No writing, but my mother’s story kept asserting itself.

We left very early so I was dozing on the flight to Halifax when I felt the plane turning. when I saw land features re-appear, the pilot confirmed we were circling. “We can’t land in Halifax because of fog. We are waiting to see if it clears.”

I took out a December 2016 Reader’s Digest and, scanning the index, I decided on a memoir, The Chosen Path by Allison Pick. The author recalled hearing a conversation. “My Auntie Sheila was speaking to my mother about a couple they both knew, the husband Jewish, the wife gentile. . . .  So their daughter isn’t Jewish. Because Judaism always comes from the mother.”

It caught my interest—my grandfather, my mother’s father, was Jewish and my grandmother was not. For Allison Pick it was a lightbulb moment that  made her aware of the family secret and lead her on a journey to reclaim her heritage. It wasn’t the same for me—I can’t remember a time when I did not know my mother’s father was Jewish. I also knew that my mother was not Jewish because her mother was not. Family is family; I had no idea of the implications.  Was it a family secret? I didn’t think so, but now I am looking closer.  Continue reading